Seriously take that into consideration. No matter what you have done Jehovah has the ability to forgive you.
Dear ____, It never ceases to amaze me how mere humans such as yourself continually make assumptions about the spirituality of their fellow man. They believe they have the authority to interpret and judge the status of other peoples relationship with their heavenly father and assume they are unaware or have forgotten about the forgiveness he offers to us all. Some even go as far as to insinuate that others are in need of an extra measure of his forgiveness .
Thanks for your misdirected concern and once again, I send my condolences to you and your family.